Your words can heal !

That post won't be a long one. As I have only one thing to say, only one big message to convey.
We all know someone who feels bad, who feels down, who feels not confident at all, who is suffering.
And the fact that the person is not saying it loud and doesn't seem seeking attention doesn't mean she's less suffering than somebody who tells it. And by the way only  few people tell it when they're suffering.
However, if I write you this, that's because you've got probably no idea how your words can "heal" a person, or at least how it can make someone feel better, at least for a moment.

This is just an example among so many different situations, but when you are -let's say- sixteen,
when you think you're ugly
 when you think you're fat 
 when you find your skin is horrible
when you think you look awful
when you think the only way to look less disgusting is to wear make up, is to wear cool and expensive clothes when you think everything you do sucks
when you think the real you sucks
when you want to hide the real you behind brands, behind tones of makeup, thinking that people will focus more on what you wear than on what you are, thinking you'd look better if you hide yourself if you change yourself somehow
when you think that the only way to get people to like you is to look like beauty standards
 when you realize you're not like these beauty standards and you'd probably never be
when you cry
 when you get depressed
 when you get angry against society against life
when you think you're shit, 
when you get jealous against people who look more like beauty standard than you 
when you become mean 
when you hurt people when you feel guilty but you continue
 when you think you're even more shitty than you thought 
when you hurt yourself, when you destroy yourself
when you stay apart not to destroy the others 
when you're isolated
 when you're alone when you are lonely
when you think you're done 
when you think it's over
when you disgust yourself so bad


Then when someone comes and says he loves you for what you really are, your personality, your body, your face with no makeup on....sorry but it's kind of hard to believe it.
However, when someone comes up and says just a compliment like "I find you beautiful today", or just an encouragement like "Hold on" when you failed at something, or just some genuine words like "you're so funny!" or "You're a really nice person", it can litterally change one's day, or even one's world!
The best part is that you don't need to say nothing "deep", you just got to let your heart speak, in few words.
And to the person who would hear it, these words would sound like magic, believe me.


So next time you have something nice and sincere to say that comes in your mind, just say it! Spread it out! Spread the good everywhere out of you! Don't even hesitate. Your words can heal :)